How dogs show affection

Dogs communicate their feelings in ways that owners may not always notice. Research by Canine Cottages shows that a dog’s heart rate can increase by 46.2% when told “I love you”, highlighting the strong emotional connection between dogs and their owners. With Valentine’s Day approaching, experts are outlining behaviours that indicate a dog’s affection.

Dr. Emma Scales-Theobald, Canine Behaviourist at Canine Cottages, explains that dogs show love through gestures ranging from tail wags to physical closeness. Many dogs actively seek out attention and respond to interaction as a way to bond with their owners. Common behaviours include nudging, leaning, and sitting near or on their human companions, each demonstrating trust and comfort.

Other signs of affection include following their owners from room to room, sharing toys, or initiating play. Some dogs expose their bellies as a mark of trust, while others sleep near or on their owners to show they feel safe. Even licking can be a display of love, though Dr. Emma notes that excessive licking may indicate anxiety rather than affection.

“Understanding your dog’s behaviour can deepen your bond and help you respond to their emotional needs,” says Dr. Emma. “Knowing the difference between affection and stress signals ensures you’re tuned into their well-being.”

Nudging, leaning, and proximity are all subtle ways dogs communicate trust and affection. Gestures like play bows, toy sharing, and gentle jumping indicate excitement and attachment. Recognising these behaviours can help owners respond appropriately and strengthen their relationship with their pets.

Shannon Keary from Canine Cottages adds, “If you’d like to show your dog love this Valentine’s Day through a trip away, these are the perfect last-minute getaways to take with your furry friend.”