Dogs Trust Research Reveals 'Isolation in Grief' After Losing a Dog

Dogs Trust has released new research highlighting the deep emotional impact of losing a dog. According to the survey, 89% of UK adults equate the death of a dog to losing a close family member. Despite this, many dog owners feel isolated in their grief, with one in ten stating that they had no one to talk to after the loss of their beloved pet.

The survey, which targeted both current and former dog owners in the UK, uncovered several barriers that prevent people from openly discussing their grief. Approximately half of those surveyed reported difficulties in expressing their feelings after the death of their dog.

Some common reasons include the belief that others would not understand their emotions (22%), fear of being judged for their sadness (15%), and embarrassment over their level of distress (12%). Additionally, 13% of respondents found it challenging to articulate their feelings about the loss.

While most respondents (74%) felt they could share their grief with close family members, only 13% felt comfortable discussing their loss with employers or colleagues. This lack of support in the workplace underscores the need for broader understanding and acceptance of the emotional toll that losing a dog can take.

Samantha Davis, Legacy and In-Memory Manager at Dogs Trust, says, “The loss of a pet dog can be as devastating as losing a family member. Dogs hold a special place in our hearts, offering unconditional love and companionship, and when they pass away, the grief can be profound and, sadly for some, isolating.

“It’s really important that owners who experience the loss of their canine companions can open up and share their feelings with friends and family. Many will find solace in knowing they are not alone.”

In response to the emotional isolation many dog owners experience after the loss of their pet, Dogs Trust has introduced a new event, Walk for Our Old Friends (WOOF). The 3.5km walk is designed to bring people together to remember their cherished canine companions and to support each other in their grief.

The inaugural WOOF walk will take place in Salcey Forest, Northampton, on Sunday, 6 October 2024, from 4pm to 7pm. During the walk, participants will have opportunities to reflect on and celebrate the lives of their late dogs. Dogs Trust will also provide onsite support, along with online resources to help participants cope with their loss.

For those unable to attend the event in Northampton, Dogs Trust offers online resources for organising a personal walk in memory of a lost dog.